Romance Resource Books "1001 Ways To Be Romantic by Greg Godek". A great resource with lots of romantic ideas.  "1001 MORE Ways To Be Romantic" by Greg Godek. Greg's second book, lots of new ideas submitted by readers. "2002 Romantic Ideas" by Cyndi Haynes and Dale Edwards. This book offers 2002 one-liner ideas on dating and romance. There are many good ideas. Relationship Books "A Fine Romance" by Judith Sills. An excellent book describing the path of establishing a long term, committed relationship. From the first date to 'I Do,' it describes emotions, patterns, and getting past the stumbling blocks that end a relationship before it gets really started. "Getting the Love you want" by Harville Hendrix. This book is used as a resource in the Practical Applications of Intimate Relationship Skills (PAIRS) communications class that Joy and I took. The exercises are hard but worthwhile. "Light Her Fire" by Ellen Kreidman. The next two books are based on courses that Ellen has taught for years. They are excellent for helping you understand yourself as well as your mate. "Light His Fire" by Ellen Kreidman. "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" by John Gray. Everyone has probably heard of John by now. This book explains some of the differences between men and women and explains how to deal with them and enhance your relationship. Romantic Poetry Books "A Book of Love Poetry" edited by John Stallworthy. "Sonnets from the Portuguese" by Elizabeth Barrett Browning.